All kinds of guys follow me. Years ago, one fan called me “Svengali.” I had to look it up: a character who uses hypnotic influence to transform someone into something extraordinary. I laughed then, and I still do now. I’m just me, doing what I do. I don't hypnotize anyone, I just see things they may not see in themselves, I encourage, and inspire ego does the rest.  But the label sticks every time I push boundaries and turn quiet, cautious guys (tops, bottoms, or both) into bold, cocky show-offs who learn, with my guidence, how to own the camera and their own power;in other words: Confidence.

My inbox stays full with progress pics, flexes, gym selfies and dick shots from members and dudes who follow me around the world. That is what inspired my (#fandicks #proudboners) posts on my X account @themusclemafia from guys worldwide. Guys who have been blessed with or have built impressive bodies. Almost all say, “I’d love to be on your site… but I’m too far,” or “I could never...” what ever the excuse.  I am not sure how valid the excuse, but its not usually the real issue, Fear is. Shy isn’t weak or meek. It’s often cautious, guarded, a quiet hornet’s nest untapped testoterone just waiting for the right poke of encouragement.

That’s where I come in, part of my job. You don't have to be anywhere near me to do it. Of course, nothing beats sitting across from me, building real trust and connection in person. Still, I spot the spark from anywhere, through texts, emails, voice notes and if you let me in your head, I’ll coach the body, build the confidence, push you to develop what you’ve been hiding yet still protect your indenity. When you finally trust this community as the safe place to let go, everything shifts. It’s liberating. It changes how you see yourself sexually, unlocks hidden fantasies, and gives you a new swagger that carries into everyday life, your energy changes. I’ve watched it happen with my own crew: Brandon, Brad, Matt and others whose stories I tell on this blog and on my web-series Behind The Masks. Matt by the way when we met was that nice-guy-next-door with a body and dick that otherwise would have stayed hidden. It’s not just money that brings guys here or keeps them here; it’s how it makes them feel, protected by our code of silence.

These guys aren’t always strict tops. Some flip, explore, and surprise themselves under my guidance like LA Jack, Chicago Ben, and others. Kody (@kodyblue_) is the must recent remote success: a year of my subtle direction turned a cautious fan into a cocky stud proudly feeding his load to a willing cock sucker on camera. Check out #233 VIP ONLY- Kody: A Shy Guy Becomes a Show-Off – Gets Serviced & Swallowed

  He asked that it be VIP ONLY, I keep my promises. Most new releases will be VIP ONLY.

Guys close by me in the NYC Tri-state area get the ultimate rush of walking straight onto my camera with personal private direction. Guys like Tucker in Boss Breeds Tucker and his others, Ron who must have done 50 films and swallowed every crew member and special guest over the years (search the movie catalog), Billy, and more who arrived shy and left as legends. Nothing beats being here in person, but technology and some creativity can make it the closest thing to being here live; others could get an invite and tickets.

But location or anything else doesn’t decide your fate, willingness does. This community is for every guy worldwide sitting on a good body, great dick, heavy load, unique talent, or personal story that deserves the spotlight and no face, complete discretion. You don’t need to be local or have fancy studio gear; just consistency, honesty, and balls to film on my direction. I have the rest; the process in it self is fucking erotic.

The truth is Real masculinity comes in all flavors, quiet or loud, deep-voiced or softer-spoken. Even as a bottom, true masculinity can shine: the power to command desire, to skillfully please a man, to make an alpha surrender control and relinquish his load all while the alpha still stays top dog. This all can be summed up into one word “Confidence” it’s life changing. As long as you’re ready to discover it (or let me) and show it, there’s a place here.

Show me what you’ve got. I’ll do the rest.

Carlo@musclematt.com