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Ditch the Labels, It’s just a Fucking Blow Job, so do me and you a solid Bro
Posted on 11/08/24Photo Credit: Eric, the skater kid from some of our films. Taken from a VIP ONLY film with me, Carlo.
Ditch The Labels: Anyone who has spent time with me will tell you I can fill a book with my sayings. One, among many that I have lived by is.. “I only worry about the labels on my food and my clothing”. I reject any other labels. Society tends to want to label people or place each and every one of us in a box. I reject that, always have. That is what the entire foundation of The Muscle Mafia and musclematt.com stands on. Straight men can enjoy gay sex, hence the hashtag I started many years ago, sportsex. Sex, male sexuality and the primal urge to shoot a load and get off is a sport. It’s not personal, it has nothing to do with falling in love, it’s just a sport. Men team up, have crushes or a Bromance, a special connection but it’s just “getting off”.
If She won't, He Will: I still after 2 decades on the internet face backlash that if a guy gets a blow job from a guy he is gay; No he isn’t! stop it! There is more to it than than that, read and learn. He is just fucking horny, and smart enough to know guys suck dick better period! I personally would rather fuck a woman but let a dude go ape shit and edge the fuck out of my dick. If you find the right cock sucker, a guy will do things to your dick a chick can’t or won’t PERIOD. That doesn’t make you gay, that makes you a horny bastard who demands the best. It doubles your chances on a Saturday night, if the girl you are with can’t suck or doesn’t want to, be a gentleman, take her home, thank her for a good time and then just text your bro or that guy that will milk your nuts dry! Options man!
Real Men Know What They Want & How to Get It: I am making this cut and dry, and really it should be, but for some it is more complex. There are social and societal norms or “labels” that men get hooked on, get past that and you can enjoy some really good fucking head. Another saying I am famous for is, that a real man, knows what he wants and knows how to get it, and makes no apologies. He also doesn’t have to talk about it or broadcast it. Be cool dudes.
The Receipts: Here is what I know based on my own personal experiences outside of musclematt.comand with speaking to men like this all over the world for over 20 years at
musclematt.com. My findings have been reinforce, I bring the receipts! Some men, confident men can have interactions with other men, gay or not and NOT feel the need to redefine their sexuality or sexual orientation. They have perfectly normal relationships with women, their romantic and emotional feelings are for women. However, there are just times where they want to play rough or just take all emotion out of it, escape their day to day life and even take on a different identity. This again is something I found 20 years ago, or what I call their alter ego. The masks, the environment I provide, the rewards I provide all allow a straight guy to tap into his alter ego. This happens both on and off camera, I have just inspired them finding it out for themselves and you have watched the proof of it in all my films.
The Criteria For a Cock Sucker: The dynamics between men and women are very different, a horny dude, especially a worked out, high-testosterone level dude with a raging hard-on just wants a fucking damn good blow job with out the before and after emotional nonsense. The guy doesn’t have to be all the attractive either, just good at sucking. I am told few are into overweight or out of shape, but an average body, clean healthy guy, the most important factor is TRUST! Again we aren't looking for a relationship or to fall in love, while an in shape good looking dude is preferred, a guy you can trust who is STD etc free, to keep his mouth shut is even more preferred. No one likes a slob, but when it comes to just getting serviced and swallowed, there are different criteria you look for; healthy and can keep a secret. In fact I have been told by many guys that if they only receive and not touch a guy, it changes nothing in their mind it is just mechanical and it is an extreme ego boost. A quid-pro-quo among “bros” do me a solid bro, can you get me off?
Shit Happens, Fuck it, Let it: Others as we have found here are perfectly fine with something more mutual if there is the right attraction. I say the right attraction, it just happens before some guys even know it happened. Otherwise, a guy can get sucked even if there is no attraction to a guy, its a wet mouth, a throat with no gag reflex and it’s amazing. A man who is good at sucking is good because not only does he really like sucking and pleasing, but he too has a dick and knows what feels good. I have gotten my best fucking blow jobs by my straightest, hottest buddies, and sometimes more mutual things have happened. You have seen that play out in our films too. I film reality, go with what feels good, feels right, feels natural. I have and they have, its something unspoken during and unspoken after, we just know.
Enhancing The Thrill: I also have learned that married or straight men with a girlfriend or in between girlfriends who just need to bust a nut, also get off on the secret of it, the taboo, the discretion. It’s an added thrill, doing something others tell you you can’t or shouldn’t. That’s always inspires me, like when they told me straight men in a mask not showing their face would never work. They just didn’t know the beast. I was one of those guys in college when this started, that preferred my dick sucked by a guy. I had a frat brother who during a drunken night fall a sleep in my dorm room, when I was woken up by a raging boner that was being worked on by my buddy; I didn't stop him. Dude made my toes curl, he swallowed my nut like a champ, took me balls deep even when I busted my nut, the dude just gulped me down. At that time a girl never could, she licked it like an ice cream cone (boring as fuck). Even today while some are better, nah, prefer my dick manhandled when it comes to kicking back. It is the most satisfying blow job I ever had, let’s say I was making trips to his dorm room often. The beauty was he was on the baseball team, and we had mutual friends at the gym, no one knew or would ever even guess we were fucking around, that enhanced my thrill; I thought that was fucking hot. Then he told me there were other guys from his team and the frat he was sucking off. It was then, that I knew this was a very secret sub-culture; it fascinated me, I wasn’t the only one. (more about my early beginnings in another article or video on the site).
Times Changed, Men Haven't, Ask Their Dicks: Things have changed over the last 20 years, all by the inventions social media, movies etc. while still being very “down low” some sort of guy on guy action or even an admitted gym crush or bromance (without sex) among men has become perfectly accepted and freely discussed. There is less of a mental struggle, but not entirely some are still very uptight but it’s in their head. If you ask their dicks you might get a different answer. Some guys like to suck and swallow, others like to get sucked and get swallowed. Sounds like a perfect match, there is the quid-pro-quo, everybody wins. I will tell you this, as with much of my crew and again other very hot straight guys I have spoken to with either girls or wives say the blow job would not be as hot and as enjoyable if it were not so secretive.
Advice To Gay Men: So in conclusion, and I say this to gay men only, stop trying to label men as straight or gay. They will decide that on their own depending on who they partner with for life. And do you really care, if a that gym crush has a drink or 2 and comes on to you takes his dick out are you going to ask, wait a minute how do you identify… come on, who cares. But in the mean time its a party man. Do it responsibly, be smart about it, know who you are getting with and go for it. The narrative needs to change, if you gay men want straight men you can suck, stop trying to guilt people or have that "gotcha moment" be cool about it. That is where some go wrong, stop with the labels man, just enjoy sexuality and only worry about the labels on your food and your clothing.
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Carlo 12/02/24
David: Maturity is part of it. A real man knows what he wants, knows hot to get it, if he doesn't he will find out how. But, he will always be discrete about it and careful and never makes apologies, never explains. I mean that when it comes to sexual things, for other things an apology or explanation might be appropriate. Sexually, no man can judge, however he can say no.
davida2850 11/21/24
This commentary exhibits maturity, common sense, and a well-integrated attitude toward sex and sexuality; characteristics I wish more people had. Thank you!
Love4moz 11/13/24
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